http://candydiaries.disqus.com/NoneenWed, 17 Feb 2010 13:18:20 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1081#comment-34878774<p>Awesome!! Ive been there!! I was involved with my high school sweetheart for 5 yrs...he wasnt a bad guy jus a cheater...well i guess that makes him bad huh?!?! well anyways i met up with this guy from middle school and we hit it off good!! was with him for 3 yrs...but I fucked it up bc my ex came back in the pic and boo boo the foo i went back to him and left the current bf of 3 yrs!! needless to say I got nothing out of it!! But hey I've never made the same mistake twice!! LESSON LEARNED!!</p><p>LOVES IT....</p>LOVES IT...Wed, 17 Feb 2010 13:18:20 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1065#comment-34285323<p>MikaC,</p><p>See, that is just disaster right there. She is already putting herself in a bad situation. Regardless, if she knew him before he got married, HE IS NOW MARRIED. Let's face facts, he's not gonna leave his wife. Even if he wants to leave, it's much cheaper to keep her. Your girl is gonna be the other woman. If she wants to realize that or not, that will now be her role if she continues with this dude. <br>I don't know if folks think like me, but I am more afraid of karma than I am about my feelings getting hurt. I think too much on how would I feel if this was being done to me. Sure you get a gratification in the beginning, but at the end you're in a worst off position that you were in before. Plus, if you get involved with someone that cheated on his wife/girlfriend with you what makes you think he won't cheat on you down the line. Nope don't trust it.</p>V.I.Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:16:09 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1065#comment-34280727<p>Preach!! One of my girls is going through this but in addition to the good dick he's a good provider, owns a couple properties, nice rides, nice vacations with his WIFE &amp; all that but my girl was with him before he got married, they went their separate ways &amp; now he's all in her face again saying he didn't realize what he had when he had her...but he's not trying to leave the wife/kids. SMH there's still strong feelings there on both sides (my girl says they haven't done anything physical since he's been married though) I tell her leave it alone, karma is a b*tch!</p>MikaCMon, 15 Feb 2010 12:18:47 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=882#comment-34242159<p>I feel you on everything!! I dont like crybaby men! That is one way to push me farrrr away. Stop crying and act like you have two balls between your legs. And also I don't like men who I'm not in a relationship with act like im obligated to them. I don't have to explain myself or my actions to you.</p>DeonLaVoyMon, 15 Feb 2010 00:44:08 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=908#comment-34239117<p>My ex would do that all the time. He wouldn't even tell anyone we were together. But when it came down to being intimate I was his boo,bae, and everything else in the book. We were together for 2 years but I just held it in and never said anything. When I would complain he would always say it's not their biz im in a realtionship with you not them. I got tired of that and I've moved on from that ass wipe.</p>DeonLaVoyMon, 15 Feb 2010 00:28:42 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1047#comment-34060489<p>Dear V.I. You stoopid lmao but I'm glad you covered this because I just didn't have the strength. </p>the78msjFri, 12 Feb 2010 17:15:56 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1047#comment-34012298<p>V.I. I dont see it either...well kindof! Lil wayne is coo and has swag but i would let him hit it raw...well i dont think I would let him it at all!! He has alot of Kids by random different women and its getting outta of hand!! I cant believe Lauren was a "run through". She is too pretty for all that!! And i dont even see what he see in her! she looks like a gremlin or something!! well they do look alike so ewwww to both of them!</p><p>Love the site tho!! Ur awesome!!</p><p>LOVES IT.....</p>LOVES IT...Fri, 12 Feb 2010 11:21:59 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1040#comment-34010570<p>omg...yes!!!! I've had bad "D" in the past and I WOULD NEVER go back to it again!! And lately the light skin men are the ones that need, lets jus say practice!! BUT the good "D" that I was getting made me do all the above!! Im taking bout being late for work, leaving the homework on the table finishing it in the AM! HAHA..the things we (sometimes) do for some good "D"</p>Loves it.....Fri, 12 Feb 2010 11:05:24 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1047#comment-34009756<p>Fail Friday..............I like it. Ur site rocks............I have a site too. It's scary to see how better new sites are and u are clearly better than mines.....I'm working on it. I want to do things others aren't doing. I want originality. I still have under construction up. U have a very nice niche. Very original.......smooches </p>deirdrebprideFri, 12 Feb 2010 10:57:39 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1018#comment-33462224<p>Yes VI right on time and so very true. <br>I have learned that growth is truly a learning experience.</p>LadyBirdWed, 10 Feb 2010 15:18:20 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1018#comment-33413871<p>P.A, There were times I was angry, because certain things I just never allowed myself to understand. Sometimes you just have to allow yourself to grow...that's where I am now. Thanks for continuosly visting my blog. </p>V.I.Wed, 10 Feb 2010 11:05:26 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1018#comment-33357490<p>Wow. I have been checking out this blog for months. It was always good for a laugh or a shock. I used to say to myself, "this sister is so angry to me". I knew deep down that it was a "uniform". We all wear them from time to time. Yet it is good to see that you really care about your life and who you give your heart to. Now... tommorow you may feel different but its just good to see you in a different spectrum. You go sister! As a man, I can appreciate your honesty and your sincerity. Love is around the corner. Just don't shoot it. lol Peace, V.I.</p>P.A.Wed, 10 Feb 2010 00:24:43 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1029#comment-33344081<p>woooow! I needed this, FOR REAL! I just gotta PRAY on my situation...cause it feels SO good, damn!</p>Charis S.Tue, 09 Feb 2010 21:21:37 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1018#comment-33320197<p>Great blog. I like how you've grown. I sent this to a friend of mine because she's chasing after a man that is all wrong for her. I hope this helped her in some way.</p><p>Thanks </p>JessiTue, 09 Feb 2010 18:27:32 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=14#comment-32969037<p>There is nothing wrong with giving head just do a back round check on the dick dick you plan on sucking.</p>holidaymooreSun, 07 Feb 2010 19:22:02 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=1013#comment-32814191<p>Wow, like V.I. said why are you with this guy? It seems like he's running some kind of game and trying to get as much chicks pregnant as he can. I think you should leave him alone and just focus on your child. </p>Debra Fri, 05 Feb 2010 23:18:10 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=992#comment-32737134<p>I was a virgin for longer time than that ( and know many others), because of my thoughts and beliefs. So whatever your reason, definitely don't let your cousins and peers be the reason you do something. If you having sex or not having sex, someone will have something to say... Its also possible that they bothering you about it because they weren't so happy with their first experiences and want you to be in company with them.</p><p>When you make that decision just make sure it feels right to you, not no one else, because thats a decision you have to live with and theres no taking it back. Never be in a rush to share your body, especially with you never being in any type of relationship, you should definitely explore something before making a decision about when it's right for you to have sex.</p><p></p>ShercoleFri, 05 Feb 2010 10:31:17 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=970#comment-32700186<p>awwww...how cute was that!!!</p><p>LOVES IT....</p>BrittanyThu, 04 Feb 2010 23:56:00 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=973#comment-32652578<p>You never disappoint. Great post!</p>JessiThu, 04 Feb 2010 17:32:29 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=14#comment-32420896<p>I will say that I've done it before but I will not brag about how well it is performed or how good it's going to feel because that type of thing all about perception. I will down play how good it is to weasel my way out of it if I just ain't feeling it that day.</p>Princess0889Tue, 02 Feb 2010 16:26:31 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=936#comment-32087338<p>How can you say you hope he's not offended, damn, with you calling me out like that I would be offended.</p>tasha tFri, 29 Jan 2010 16:16:28 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=936#comment-32070104<p>OMG Hilarious....I've missed your Fail Friday's. You're right he does look strange looking. The Coming to America reference was perfect. </p>JessiFri, 29 Jan 2010 14:18:36 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=908#comment-31469802<p>Uh, no. I don't make assumptions in relationships. I'm not presumptuous to think a man will just get it without me telling him. If I'm being introduced as a friend then we've already agreed on that term and we've more than likely discussed the possibility of a relationship and when and if that will happen.</p>BrownEyedPantherTue, 26 Jan 2010 19:58:44 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=882#comment-30719848<p>It seems like many of the above reasons are all based on the root of lacking self-confidence: lying, nagging and being weak. And perhaps worse than any of the above reasons is someone lacking so much confidence they are not comfortable with themselves and compensate by trying to be someone they are not and of course they can't pull it off.<br></p>VegasSevenThu, 21 Jan 2010 13:36:21 -0000http://candydiaries.com/?p=852#comment-30431088<p>Who is this?</p>V.I.Tue, 19 Jan 2010 20:15:58 -0000