Home gyal, I am with you on that one, I've tried it, but it had never make it in, not even the tip and I was noooooooooooooo! Girl I really don't know how ppl get a penis in the ass. I am dead scared as well. I guess we're on the same page!
VIChick
· 4 months ago
Everybody says the same thing. One friend of mine said she fainted from the pain. That shit is too serious for me. Lawd I can't do it
tracyreneejones
· 4 months ago
Ain't nothing like anal sex if you got the right man. The only requirement is that he is patient and knows how to relax you. I have enjoyed anal with a large man and a regular sized guy and it was just as good either way. Most of the enjoyment comes from relaxing into it and trusting your man. You'll be pleasantly surprised to find out that he can create pleasure in parts of you that you didn't know felt that dam good. Butt (no pun), its not for the faint at heart.
VIChick
· 4 months ago
Ha....so it's all about the partner making you feel comfortable. Ok that makes sense. I'm concerned about #2 on the list. What about seepage?
Don
· 4 months ago
it doesnt make your booty bigger..it makes your bootyhole bigger...lol
ThatchickNik
· 4 months ago
***I apologize in advance for the long comment***
Good Post VI!! one of my FAV topics! (hee!) I agree with Don, VI. That "making your booty big" is such a myth. But as a person who has done it and actually enjoys it, Im riding with tracyrenee. Its not something you should do frequently. I dont think many experience that seepage problem unless you're having anal sex for extended periods of time. but if you decide to try it, i recommend a man you trust and youre comfortable with. As we may have discussed before on another blog, baby oil works for the lube (you dont need to get fancy with that). The first time is a little uncomfortable, i wont lie to you, but just like riding a bike; you may scrap your knee from falling but you get back on and try it till you get it right. you're wrong about #3. It will get better.
key thing is to RELAX RELAX and RELAX. do NOT tense your muscles. And if the pain is too much to bear, just stop. A good technique for first timers is the on all fours. Others may not agree, but what it does is it has you "open" in a way. It gives your lover the opportunity to "play" around back there. Lube you up and youre ready to go: he should insert the tip of his penis, GENTLY. not too much, just to say hi! then he should pull back out. in again, a little more this time, and out but this time not all the way, since he has you open. then in again (all at YOUR pace, not his) then out. All the while, one of ya'll need to be playing with your lucy to keep you aroused.
Trust me its worth it once you're totally open. Its one of the best feelings in the world of sex. As long as you understand what you are signing up for, just like with losing your virgnity, pain will eventually turn to pleasure, the more you do it.
VIChick
· 4 months ago
Bwahahahahahah wow Nik that explaination made me want to try it. I need you to write an anal sex manual cause that shit made me feel comfortable as hell.
ThatchickNik
· 4 months ago
LOL!!! gurrrllllll! I "lubs" me freaky sh*t! I need to write a post about it, I dont think I ever have...
hrlickandsuck
· 4 months ago
Anal sex is a nice treat every once in a while but on a regular basis it won't do you any good long term. Lube Lube Lube and relaxation are the key to a successful anal invasion of a fine womans asshole. fellahs you can't just try and stick it in raw and unlubed this ain't San Quentin or shit like that. One needs to build up to it if the ass is virginal plenty of lube and maybe a butt plug will do.
However I do know some ladies like a small vibrator in the ass, so thats another way to go. no point in trying it on a one night stand it ain't gonna happen. A finger is what you can start with run it around her rim and see if it excites her if not back off but if it does, then continue. Some women have never tried it due to many myths but for some its a whole new level of sexual pleasure, which is why they enjoy it.
oh or newbies to the this backdoor art take it slowly as it's not pussy you are fucking.
So here's a run down:
1. Relax
2. Use lots of lube lots on her ass and condom covered cock
3. wear a condom as shit sticks and it smells
4. insert finger, small vibe or butt plug, increase in size
5. take your time
6. If the ass is suitably relaxed and stretched 3-4 fingers in there or a large vibe or butt plug in there insert slowly the tip of your cock. I said slowly
7. Always check to see if your lady is ok too painful pull out
8. treat the asshole gently let her push onto you as she'll know her limits.
9. If you enjoy it then continue but not everyday otherwise her ass will fall out ( joke)
My last anal sex experience was with my fuck buddy of a few years and I still can't get over the fact that she was bouncing up and down on my cock that night. We still laugh about it now as even I was shocked it like porn star anal but it was good damn good and very very enjoyable.
ThatchickNik
· 4 months ago
ahem....Mr. Hrlickandsuck, do I know you?
LOL!!!! JUST KIDDING!!!!
VIChick
· 4 months ago
Well damn. Thanks for the pointers.
eccentrikqueen
· 4 months ago
No Thanks! People have their picks and its not mine.
All Comments
Good Post VI!! one of my FAV topics! (hee!)
I agree with Don, VI. That "making your booty big" is such a myth. But as a person who has done it and actually enjoys it, Im riding with tracyrenee.
Its not something you should do frequently. I dont think many experience that seepage problem unless you're having anal sex for extended periods of time. but if you decide to try it, i recommend a man you trust and youre comfortable with. As we may have discussed before on another blog, baby oil works for the lube (you dont need to get fancy with that). The first time is a little uncomfortable, i wont lie to you, but just like riding a bike; you may scrap your knee from falling but you get back on and try it till you get it right. you're wrong about #3. It will get better.
key thing is to RELAX RELAX and RELAX. do NOT tense your muscles. And if the pain is too much to bear, just stop.
A good technique for first timers is the on all fours. Others may not agree, but what it does is it has you "open" in a way. It gives your lover the opportunity to "play" around back there. Lube you up and youre ready to go: he should insert the tip of his penis, GENTLY. not too much, just to say hi! then he should pull back out. in again, a little more this time, and out but this time not all the way, since he has you open. then in again (all at YOUR pace, not his) then out. All the while, one of ya'll need to be playing with your lucy to keep you aroused.
Trust me its worth it once you're totally open. Its one of the best feelings in the world of sex. As long as you understand what you are signing up for, just like with losing your virgnity, pain will eventually turn to pleasure, the more you do it.
However I do know some ladies like a small vibrator in the ass, so thats another way to go. no point in trying it on a one night stand it ain't gonna happen. A finger is what you can start with run it around her rim and see if it excites her if not back off but if it does, then continue. Some women have never tried it due to many myths but for some its a whole new level of sexual pleasure, which is why they enjoy it.
oh or newbies to the this backdoor art take it slowly as it's not pussy you are fucking.
So here's a run down:
1. Relax
2. Use lots of lube lots on her ass and condom covered cock
3. wear a condom as shit sticks and it smells
4. insert finger, small vibe or butt plug, increase in size
5. take your time
6. If the ass is suitably relaxed and stretched 3-4 fingers in there or a large vibe or butt plug in there insert slowly the tip of your cock. I said slowly
7. Always check to see if your lady is ok too painful pull out
8. treat the asshole gently let her push onto you as she'll know her limits.
9. If you enjoy it then continue but not everyday otherwise her ass will fall out ( joke)
My last anal sex experience was with my fuck buddy of a few years and I still can't get over the fact that she was bouncing up and down on my cock that night. We still laugh about it now as even I was shocked it like porn star anal but it was good damn good and very very enjoyable.
LOL!!!! JUST KIDDING!!!!